Saturday, January 14, 2012

My Generation's Holocaust

First entry of a new blog......Alrighty.  Hi, I'm Holly and I'm 33 years old.  I have three kids.  My youngest child has Trisomy 21, AKA Down syndrome.  Thanks for the contact lenses Trent; they are awesome!!

Introductions, check.  Let's get to the nitty gritty.

How frightful is the word "Holocaust?"  I've never used it outside of a historical context before today.   I certainly do not use it lightly.  I use it now because I sincerely believe that a holocaust is happening right under society's distracted nose.  Don't feel bad, I didn't notice it either until Trent came along.  

Is it too strong of a word?  How can something so severe and sickening happen in today's world?  Lack of public knowledge does not change the fact of its existence or the scale of it.  

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." -Edmund Burke

Start with statistics.  Approximately 90% of pregnancies with a prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome are terminated.  9 out of 10 babies with a prenatal diagnosis are aborted. 

Is this the face of worthless?  Or "too hard to take care of?" I admit that his hair is a bit messy but messy is in! 

     
New prenatal tests make it possible to discover Down sydrome even faster with less false results.  Sounds like good science right?  Except abortion numbers will go up as a result.  Less children born with Down syndrome means the ones already here will begin to lose civil and human rights....the same rights that were mostly unheard of until recently.   Less children born with Ds means less research.  Less respect.  Less laws of protection.

Mosey on over the ocean to a few countries other than the United States. While you are out seeing the pretty sites, take a note of the places where money and education are scarce.  Do you see any child with Ds?  Or any special needs at all?  No, because children born with any physical defect or medical diagnosis are immediately put into orphanages.  The birth a shame to the family. 

Should I be ashamed of him?




There are "baby houses" (orphanages) that aren't too bad...in a relative sense. The children are fed, cleaned, and touched at least occasionally. While not ideal, it is not the worst.
The worst are hellish.  There are rooms for the hopeless children. 9 year olds that weigh 11 pounds. Starving to death. Teenagers that fit in baby walkers. The body will stop producing growth hormone when starvation is ongoing.  Children with hydrocephelus, a condition easy to treat in early stages, are left to die a painful death,  their skull literally breaking open. 

Years of not being touched make the children leery of any physical contact. For stimulation, they bite themselves or bang their head on the crib bars. If and when they are adopted, they can have extremely hard times adjusting to love and affection. 

Even the simple act of eating, which in the orphange consisted of a spoon of mush rammed into their mouth over and over or a fast flow bottle choking them and leading to aspiration, has to be slowly introduced and taught so that the child can learn to value and enjoy food.     

Then, if and when these child turn a certain age, usually around 5 or 6, they are transferred to an adult mental institution.  They often die not long after that....starvation, lack of attention, lack of movement, lack of health care.  Need to see it to believe it?



The horror stories are endless.  The list of countries like this are endless. The children's faces haunt my dreams.  And my nightmares. 

A girl before institutionalization and after:



These orphans have parents that want them and want them badly.  It is only money that prevents the adoption.

If Trent was away from me, starving to death, what amount wouldn't I pay to get him back? For any of my children?



If the knowledge that these children are an ocean away makes it easy for you to forget their plight, let me tell you about the mistreatment happening here in the United States.  Organ transplants can be denied to children with "mental retardation."  The reasons (excuses?) are varied....will the child as an adult know how to take medicines to maintain the organ?  What is their quality of life?  Why prolong a life if there is not quality?  What if the donor is a family member and therefore it is not a wait-listed organ?

Who judges quality of life?  Doctors? 


What do you think of Trent's quality of life?  His sister and brother obviously think much of him.

 







Does the fact that his IQ likely falls into the Mental Retardation range mean his life lacks quality?


I use the word "holocaust" because I am frightened.  I am frightened for my son and all like him, whether it be Down syndrome or some other "imperfection."  I am frightened that the wave of truth and justice has not gained enough speed to wash away this blatant disregard for human rights.  I use it because the Holocaust of history began in similar ways.  It was a slow, systematic purging.

"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."
     Martin Luther King Jr.


 You don't need to have a child with Down syndrome or other special needs to care.  You just need to understand that human rights are being violated.  This is not an American thing.  It is a human thing.


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"... in spite of everything, I still believe that people are really good at heart. I simply can't build up my hopes on a foundation consisting of confusion, misery, and death. I see the world gradually being turned into a wilderness, I hear the ever approaching thunder, which will destroy us too, I can feel the sufferings of millions and yet, if I look up into the heavens, I think that it will all come right, that this cruelty too will end, and that peace and tranquility will return again." - Anne Frank

2 comments:

  1. I have been shocked and saddened by this news today also. And it doesn't just happen in America either. It is happening here in Australia, and in my homeland of New Zealand too.

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  2. I applaud your courage for this post. Recently I was reading about an 'action' that Hitler undertook in his first years of power, before the Shoah had even truly began, which was to 'empty' the mental asylums. Children and adults alike were murdered. Children were usually given lethal injections. Adults were gassed. These gassings are what prompted the mass use of Zyklon B in the concentration camps. The tiny percentage of people in institutions who had family who visited them or kept tabs on them were sent a random tin of ashes (as people were cremated communally) and a death certificate with a falsified 'cause of death'. Some people figured it out when a loved one died of 'appendicitis'... after having his appendix removed years prior, or something similar. Some people protested the program. But nothing was ever done that was enough to stop it.

    So, your use of the word 'holocaust' here, is absolutely justified. It is decimation of an entire people. It is prejudice twisted into its ugliest form: mass murder. And it is absolutely going on today. Putting children in 'lying rooms'? Starving them? Well, death may not come as quickly as if they were given a lethal injection, because Hitler couldn't be bothered with waiting for people to die... but instead, now, children SUFFER, for YEARS before they die... in the name of society saying "we did all we could." Bullshit, society. Bullshit. These are INTENTIONAL DEATHS. The decimation of an entire people. Holocaust.

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